Vezer Family Winery and next steps

So, Chelsea and I visited the Vezer Family Winery today, and while the property is BEAUTIFUL, I think it's a little small and, hrm, socially....conservative for the crowd we're going to have there. Mostly the smallness that gets me, but I have a feeling that our group of friends will want some liquor, and unfortunately that's not provided. They also don't let just anyone cook in their kitchen, which is completely understandable, but I kind of need someone to be able to prepare food. :) They're not completely off the list, still an option, but I'm glad I visited the gorgeous grounds and got some perspective of the venue. As promised, here are the pictures I took:

My next stop is going to be at the Benicia Arsenal. Considering the military-ish them, it seems like a good option. I'm not sure how the outside areas look, but I'm still researching. I want an outside ceremony and then we can move the reception inside if necessary. It's really pretty. I will be visiting it tomorrow probably. Depends on if there's time with everything else going on.

I just realized there are going to be lots of kids there! We are going to need a corral! Insannnnnity. :)

Anyway. Will post more pictures tomorrow. Adios! Oh yeah, I forgot to post when we're looking at doing this thing. October 14th, 15th, or 16th. Weigh in here or on my facebook to let me know what you all think is best: a Friday evening, Saturday mid-day to evening (which is more expensive!), or Sunday. I'm kind of thinking a Friday evening, but I'm not sure. Let me know what you think!!